Have you recently discovered that your partner enjoys being spanked and feel confused about what this might mean for your relationship?  Does the snap of a whip make you wet, but also a little worried?  Do you hear “Daddy” and get excited?  Can a look from your Domme or the smell of latex immediately put you into headspace?  If so, we should talk.

When you find the thing you want to explore, when you need help talking to a partner who may not understand why you like what you like… I can help with that.  I’ve worked extensively across the range of fetishes and kinks that come into a sex therapist’s office.  I understand the myriad of questions and concerns that individuals and relationship partners typically need help navigating when they realize their erotic template includes a kink or two.  To be able to provide help in this area, I completed a year-long kink-informed certification and multiple in-person trainings with Midori, an internationally-known kink expert, pro domme and shibari master of unparalleled reputation (and author of Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage).  I’ve also completed numerous in-person trainings at various kink events such as Thunder in the Mountains and Dark Odyssey Fusion.  We can work through whatever it is you want to explore, understand or repair, and help you integrate your sexuality into your life and relationship in a way that feels best for you.